Tuesday, October 25, 2011
Singapore Yoni Massage
Singapore Yoni Massage refers to the massage of the female sexual organ. Female Singaporeans are usually not receptive to having others touching their private parts, but a Singapore Yoni Massage can be a totally mind blowing experience for any females who have not experience it.
The person receiving the massage will be encouraged to breathe deeply throughout the yoni massage so that the pleasure she gets is more intense.
Basically, the masseur will pour a small amount of oil on to the mound of the Yoni, just enough so it drips down the outer lips. Next, she will massage each outer lip slowly between thumb and forefinger, sliding up and down the entire length of the lip. She will do the same for the inner lips of the Yoni. Most women will be totally relaxed at this moment.
Next, the masseur will start massaging the clitoris. The clitoris is four times more sensitive as compared to the Yoni, thus many women will experience an intense pleasure. The masseur begins by gently stroking the clitoris in a clockwise and anti-clockwise direction. Sometimes, she will squeeze it gently between her thumb and index finger, this would normally yield a arousing feeling to the body.
Next, the masseur will insert her middle finger in the Yoni, she will bend her fingers back towards the palm and feel for the G-spot. She will gently massage it, in circles, back and forth, side to side. Whilst at the same time using her thumb to continue circling the clitoris.
Yoni massage is not very common in Singapore, but there are some Singapore massage palours that do offer such exotic massage. You can head over to our massage directory to look for massage palours offering such services.
http://www.singaporemassage.org/singapore-tantric-massage/singapore-yoni-massage/
How to Practice Tantra
Tantra is an ancient mystical system that originates from Hindu and Buddhist texts. Contrary to Western notions and applications of tantra, it is not a program that encourages licentious carnality. Tantra is a spiritual path, followed by adepts whose spiritual progress enables them to perform esoteric rituals. As with most spiritual paths, tantra requires a lifetime commitment to study and practice tantric principles. To practice tantra, a believer must study ancient sacred texts, practice specific meditation techniques and commit to the soul's journey toward union with the divine.
Instructions
1. Commit to tantra (Hindu or
Buddhist) as a spiritual way of life, rather than focus on the sexuality
with which tantra is associated in the West. Tantric practice brings
into harmony the mind and body by specific Kundalini yoga practice.
2. Submit the body and the mind to
the divine. By sacrifice and detachment, the whole being becomes a
vessel for the divine, which leads to liberation from rebirth (samsara)
and release from illusion (maya). Perform puja (worship) to God,
meditate in the lotus position, fast and bathe with humble respect of
the divine.
3. Locate a tantra guru. Tantra is a
complex spiritual system. Novices are advised to find a teacher who can
guide them through the intricacies and often puzzling teachings, texts
and tantric practices. In the quest for a guru, know that they are not
listed in the Yellow Pages. Find a Hindu temple and proceed from there.
Consider that your search is part of your commitment. Also, the adage,
"When the student is ready, the teacher will appear" is wisdom that can
accompany you.
4. Investigate Kundalini tantra.
Kundalini is a path (yoga) that proceeds through the journey of tantra
in systematic ways. As you awakens the energy in the chakras, you begin
to experience harmony between masculine (Shiva) and feminine (Shakti)
principles in your whole being.
How to Perform a Tantra Massage
Tantra massage is considered a
couples' massage. Unlike other massages, the experience benefits both
individuals, calming the minds of the giver and receiver while
synchronizing their energies. A tantra massage's effects goes beyond the
physical to include emotional and spiritual benefits, bringing the
focus of the mind into the moment and awakening the body through sensory
stimulation.Instructions
1. Create an atmosphere for the
massage that will induce relaxation and awaken the senses in gentle
ways. Cover the massage surface with clean, fresh linens. Light the room
with candles or by lowering the wattage of lamps. Play soft music and
light incense.
2. Position the massage receiver
face down on the prepared surface. The couple should now synchronize
their breathing, focusing on the breaths in and out. Position the
receiver's arms away from the sides of the body and the legs into a
slight V shape. The giver may softly stroke each limb while positioning
it, from shoulder to fingertips and from thigh to toes.
3. Move your hands over the
receiver's body beginning with a light and gentle touch, using only
fingertip strokes and smooth whole-hand caresses. Touching in tantra
massage is not limited to any portion of the body. Apply caressing
strokes to the full body, back and front, as long as the giver and
receiver are comfortable. The energy between the giver and receiver
determines the type of touch suited as the massage progresses.
Tips & Warnings
- Those who practice tantra massage will benefit from the practices of yoga and meditation. All of these compliment each other and enhance mindfulness into the present moment while focusing energies through breathing and movement. Relaxation, peace of mind, enhanced spirituality and physical well being are the benefits of these practices. Tantra is not a sexual act, but a sensual one that creates stronger bonds between two individuals and awakens spiritual awareness and encourages emotional healing.
- If desired, hot lava stones can enhance the massage experience.
- Avoid
using essential oils during a tantra massage if skin sensitivity exists
for giver or receiver. Use of these oils will aggravate skin conditions.
http://www.ehow.com/how_8352973_perform-tantra-massage.html
How to Learn Yoni Massage
The Sanskrit word "yoni" refers
to the vagina, but the word actually means "sacred space" or "temple."
The meaning of the word conveys the sense of reverence toward female
sexuality inherent in yoni massage. Often when a woman experiences
traumatic and/or deeply stressful events, the energy of those
experiences will linger in her yoni. Yoni massage helps release those
painful experiences. Although a woman may experience orgasm during
yoni massage, the goal of the process is not merely sexual climax but
emotional healing.
Instructions
1. Set the stage by creating a
sense of safety, privacy and sacred space. Use clean sheets and pillow
and light some candles around the perimeter of the room. After the
woman has disrobed, have her recline on the bed or massage table with a
pillow to support her head and neck. Give her a full body massage using
scented oil and/or hot stones. In order to receive the full benefit
of the yoni massage, the woman has to feel relaxed and receptive. Allow
this initial phase to take about an hour.
2. Guide the woman to breathe
slowly and deeply. Help her use her breath to begin to relax from the
inside out. Try to have your breathing rhythms synchronize. If you
want, you can talk her through a guided meditation on the chakras to
help her become more aware of her energy body. Let the massage start to
center around the yoni area, focusing on the abdomen, thighs and pubic
bone area. Slide a pillow beneath the woman's hips to elevate them so
she can view the process of yoni massage.
3. Pour some warm oil or lubricant
over the pubic mound area. Massage the outer lips of the vulva,
observing the woman's response to determine the degree of pressure to
use with your fingers. Gently squeeze the lips, sliding your fingers up
and down their length. Then repeat this process with the inner lips,
remaining aware of the woman's response to different degrees of touch.
Eye contact between the person giving the massage and the woman
receiving it deepens the intensity of the experience but try to keep the
process primarily non-verbal.
4. Stroke the clitoris in a
circular motion, both clockwise and counter-clockwise. Press it lightly
between your thumb and index finger, again noticing the woman's
response. Keep the rhythm slow and steady as you touch her. Slide the
middle finger of the other hand into the yoni. Move the middle finger in
a slightly crooked position as for a "come here" gesture, seeking what
Tantra refers to as the woman's "sacred spot." Experiment with different
levels of pressure, speeds and patterns of movement as you touch this
spot. If the woman feels comfortable, you may insert more than one
finger in the vagina. Another option, depending on the woman's comfort,
is to use the thumb of the hand inside the vagina to stroke the
clitoris and slide one or more well-lubricated fingers of the other hand
into the anus. Or you can use one hand for the yoni and clitoris and
the other hand to massage her breasts.
5. Continue to massage the yoni
area. Maintain a steady, compassionate calmness so the woman feels free
to let her body determine whether or not she climaxes or how many
orgasms she experiences. She may also experience other forms of
emotional release, including crying. Continue the massage until the
woman indicates she wishes it to conclude the session. You may want to
cover her with a sheet or blanket after the massage to give her a
sensation of feeling safe and cocooned.
Tips & Warnings
- Remember that the tissues of the genital region are highly sensitive. Avoid using strongly scented products when massaging this area. Select products safe for internal use when massaging the yoni.
http://www.ehow.com/how_7505921_learn-yoni-massage.html
How to Give a Tantra Yoni Massage
Tantra is a form of sexual activity that focuses on stimulation and intense pleasure. The yoni massage is given to a woman by her partner. "Yoni" is an alternative word in Tantra for the vagina. The purpose of the yoni massage is for the woman to relax and experience pleasure.
Instructions
1. Ask the subject of the massage to empty her bladder.
Shower or bathe together.
2. Ask the woman to lie on her back
with a pillow under her head and place a pillow under her hips. Ask her
to put her feet halfway toward her buttocks, with her knees bent, and
expose her yoni. Sit between her legs with your legs crossed.
3. Begin the breathing exercises that will continue throughout the massage.
Apply the lubricant or warm, scented oil to the outside of the yoni. Slowly and sensually massage her vaginal lips.
4. Rub her clitoris in a clockwise
motion and then in a counterclockwise motion, adjusting the speed and
pressure based on the woman's preferences.
5. Use your thumb and index finger to gently squeeze the clitoris.
6. Place your middle finger into the woman's yoni and explore various speeds and depths.
7. Focus your finger up toward the woman's G-spot, which is called the "sacred spot" in Tantra.
8. End the massage at the woman's request.
Sacred Sexuality
Sacred Sexuality
“By the same acts that cause some men to burn in hell for thousands of years,
the Tantric practitioner gains eternal salvation.”
Freud said that empires were
built on the resulting sublimated energy, but the game is over. It
turns out there's nothing unspiritual about pleasure, and it's good for
your health too. So how did we ever come to feel so bad about even
thinking about feeling good? The passions are so overwhelmingly
powerful that religions have been warning us away from them since the
dark ages. Yet, ironically, through no other human activity, except
death, is the opportunity for ego-loss, transformation and self-
realization so prevalent and powerful as in Tantra.
Tantra means more than embracing
your physicality: all action, thought, and realization becomes
spiritual liberation itself. The high art of making True Love is
mystical and miraculous beyond comprehension. It inundates your
entire being. It delivers you - body and soul - to unimagined heights
of ecstasy. The discovery of the key to the union of spirituality and
sexuality is at once a path to, and a gift of Enlightenment.
The ultimate consummation of
physical love-making is complete Union. It bestows the experience of a
spectacular breakthrough to the Infinite - beyond, but concurrent with
our everyday existence. What begins as duality within time, climaxes
as a shared soul-merging experience of Eternity. A transformation
occurs which evolves from desire and passion to a level of total and
perfect bliss, otherwise rarely known in human existence.
Spiritual merging in love is the
elusive prize that everyone seeks when they lay down with another,
whether they know it or not. Lust is only a call to love, and many
have yet to answer it. We may think we are content giving and taking
personal gratification, yet all the while the heart seeks nothing less
than to lose itself absolutely in love, and be consumed in ecstatic
union with your beloved or guide, and the Universe. We can experience
this love is a Tantric session.
How to achieve such divine
deliverance through one of the most common "animalistic" functions we
perform is the secret known to enlightened lovers as the direct path of
Love. It transcends the trap of the ego-self: In effect, the world's
greatest aphrodisiac is selflessness.
Nobody is better than the Buddha in bed.
Nobody is better than the Buddha in bed.
SURRENDER
The paradox of sex is that the same act can both liberate and imprison, depending upon one's intent, state of mind, and conditioning. Sex can drive you either towards or away from Enlightenment. The great enigma is, how can we transform the trap of addictive physical appetite to the ecstatic realization of Divine Union?
It all depends on your true and
underlying purpose. It calls for constancy and commitment to the
ultimate goal of Enlightenment. Why is the divine gift of lovemaking
so often little more than a desperate groping for glandular stimulation
in dark rooms, accompanied by feelings of hunger and shame?
Ironically, and all too often - when people use each other uncaringly -
this most universally accessible mystical experience of orgasm is
debased into something dishonorable and dirty. But anti-sex
admonitions in turn only give rise to guilt, when - despite heroic
efforts to curb our "lower appetites" - we find ourselves indulging in
what is, after all, the single most compelling human urge after
breathing and eating. We might even say that repression of this primal
biological imperative creates rapists and pedophiles.
Shame is taught by "authorities"
who can embrace neither their animal nor their spiritual nature. They
fear one and fake the other, and call this "correct." Certain
religions contend that sex must be solely for insemination and
procreation, or it is devil-worship. By that logic, one should
certainly refrain from using one's hands (not to mention lips and
tongue), and get it over with as quickly as possible. Obviously the
Good Lord made this procreational pleasure-drive far more powerful than
most individual's (and any church's) power to control.
A truly relevant and realistic
religion would teach us how to consecrate our sexuality, not deny it.
We need to unlearn our guilt about wanting sex, even as we realize
what a guilded cage it could very well become. Of course men and women
compromise their morality and good judgment all the time for sex
(although probably no more than for love, money, power, or fame). But
the inherent dangers are hardly reason to avoid the experience. Respect
for that very danger should make us take care as we take pleasure. Let
us celebrate and make sacred our natural, innate sexuality. Copulation
as high communion? Is there any better way?
SEXUAL SPIRITUALITY
It is time for today’s generation
to begin to re-learn the sacred approach to lovemaking, as in
indigenous tribal customs, rituals, and Tantric couples practices.
Meditation, invocations, breathing exercises, incense, candlelight,
ceremonial objects, rituals, music, and essential oils have been used
to create a special environment and mind-state in which to sanctify
sexual union. Such careful preparations tend to quiet the busy,
over-worked mind and increase sensitivity and sensuality, while at the
same time creating reverence.
The essence of this conscious sex
approach is to transform the very energy of your appetite for personal
pleasure into one of cosmic realization, by harnessing your own desire
to the happiness, the thrill, and the total fulfillment of your
partner. Thus you achieve Unity through duality, by making her (or
his) ecstasy your own. Giving and taking merge, and you two become
One. The transformation from ordinary mechanical, confused,
guilt-ridden sex to the profound gift of natural/spiritual lovemaking
depends upon a broadening of one's focus from the genitals to the
heart, from passion to compassion.
Spiritual sex opens you at all
centers at once, animal to divine. Transcendent love is a religious
experience. Every touch is The First, and time stands still. The
senses are magnified a thousand times. Your partner becomes a Goddess
or God, whom you worship in awe. You notice everything, and it all
conveys tremendous meaning and potency. Foreplay is truly playful,
breathtakingly tender. The pleasure is immediately and continuously
perfect, the passion intense and profound. Time itself disappears and
the Holy Universe becomes self-evident. Opening all your centers,
engaging all your faculties, the animal/emotional/spiritual crescendo
of love lasts forever, and the climax is an exquisite release of the
body, the heart and the soul in a spectacular shared revelation of the
Universal Self. The after-glow of such a cosmic physical union endures
for days.. weeks. The experience is healing and unifying in every
way.
HOW TO MAKE ENLIGHTENED LOVE
- Consecrate the setting. Make it Holy.
- Wait for the perfect moment.
- Purify yourself in body and mind.
- Meditate.
- Dedicate the experience to your highest purpose.
- Invoke the Goddesses of Love.
- Begin motionless and in silence.
- Gaze into each other's eyes, long and deep.
- Breathe together.
- Fall in love. stay in love. die into love.
- Listen for Inner Guidance.
- Reside always at the beginning.
- Move in slow motion, with reverence.
- Worship your lover. Touch only in awe.
- Trust your body's deepest impulses.
- Give voice to your feelings.
- Make love with your whole being.
- Transpose taking and giving.
- Decelerate until time stands still.
- Abandon all gain and control.
- Die as a personality. Be born as pure Love in the Universe.
EXQUISITE LOVE
To lose the self in love, look always to the beginning and keep to the beginning. Worship each other's pure essence as Goddess and God.
Everything matters.
Use all senses Read your beloved's mind/body.
In slow motion abandonment of time itself, Give only pleasure and love, letting hers become yours, ours.
Surrender continuously, unconditionally, to the sacred fire within, all consuming, all purifying, all fulfilling.
Some Sacred Sexuality excerpts have been gratefully provided by Lonny J. Brown, author of “Enlightenment in Our Time” www.BookLocker.com/LonnyBrown
“The point
of giving her sexual pleasure is to awaken the bliss that she will then
combine with meditation on emptiness in order to attain enlightenment.”
- Miranda Shaw, Ph.D. Passionate Enlightenment: Women in Tantric Buddhism -
(Princeton University Press)
(Princeton University Press)
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